Effective
leaders are experts at keeping cool and appearing in control,
even when everything seems to be falling apart. If you are in
a leadership position, people are looking to you for strength.
If you believe that things will work out, that'll keep your group
calm and confident as well. The opposite is also true. Even if
problems do exist, your strength will empower you or your group
to find a solution.
An excellent
example of this is a recent episode with my wife, Rachel. Many
of you who've met Rachel know she is an actress and is currently
performing in a show in Hollywood. Recently she came out on stage
dressed as a 17th century queen, unaware that attached to the
back of her dress was a bra! She had no idea how it got there,
but the theory is that she must have sat on it backstage before
coming out. Well, the audience noticed, and eventually, so did
Rachel.
But Rachel
didn't flinch. Backstage, between scenes, she removed the hitchhiking
underwear and continued with her performance with her head held
high. At the end of the show when she came out for her curtain
call, Rachel brought the bra with her! She curtsied holding one
side of her dress in one hand and the bra in the other. The audience
roared with laughter. After the show, audience and fellow cast
members showered her with praise for her poise and sense of humor.
Some even wondered if the bra was supposed to be there! No one
knew that deep down she was horrified. What mattered was how she
handled it. That's my Rachel!
As a leader,
it's OK for you to feel scared or discouraged. What matters is
how you carry yourself and how you address your problems. Remember,
fear and strength are both contagious. Try to spread the latter.
Scott Greenberg, Speaker, Author, Leadership Consultant
Providing motivation, team building and leadership training for
groups and individuals looking for optimum performance.
For
more information on programs or leadership workbooks,
call 1-800-450-0432 or visit www.scottgreenberg.com
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