When I first
showed up to register for the Los Angeles Marathon, I freaked
out at seeing the thousands of "athletes." It was totally
intimidating. Part of me felt like there'd be no way I could compete
with them. To my delight, I passed up 2/3 of them. However, I
sometimes wonder if I could have done better had I not freaked
myself out at the beginning.
It's easy
to give up on goals or underestimate your chances of achieving
them when there's a lot of competition. The cynical voice in our
head likes to remind us that the odds are against us. I believe
competition is less about "odds" and more about our
state of mind. I've learned that the key isn't to do better than
others; it's about getting into a state of mind where their presence
doesn't influence your performance. If you can persevere and perform
at 100%, you can give yourself an edge over others. You're more
qualified than you think. And while all of us fail some of the
time, we also can and do succeed. If it's possible, at some point
it's probable.
Most of your
competition is equally insecure and will give up early. The longer
you try, the better your chances. You're closer to success with
every attempt. So don't worry about anyone else. Be the best you
possible and competition will beat itself.
For tips on
how to set yourself up for success, check out the Jump
Start Leadership Workbooks or The
7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens.
To read more
motivation, check the Chicken
Soup for the Soul series.
Scott Greenberg, Speaker, Author, Leadership Consultant
Providing motivation, team building and leadership training for
groups and individuals looking for optimum performance.
For
more information on programs or leadership workbooks,
call 1-800-450-0432 or visit www.scottgreenberg.com
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